We all want to be confident and to be confident we must be strong and happy inside ourselves. To do that is not such an easy task and it is difficult to be happy all the time. Our life circumstances and situations can change our happiness and affect our confidence. They say to keep happy and confident we must be achieving in certain areas of our life like 1) Work life, 2) Social Life, 3) Education and 4) Family life. We should always have hope, dreams and goals and work to achieve them. What are 7+ signs that show someones confidence?
8] Don’t care what people think of them
This is the biggest issue in life for most of us, we always worry about what people will think so we don’t do the things we want to do. Most people out there really don’t care about you and what your do or wear or anything because they are riddled with their own problems. People are busy with themselves and will never really care about anyone else. So forget what people think and do what you want to do.
7] Good Posture
What is good posture? Good posture is when someone is standing up straight, has their chest out and walks like they have somewhere to be. When looking at someone and their posture you can tell what kind of mood they are in. There are bad postures like dragging yourself along when walking in a slumped way with droopy shoulders. Posture is important and it comes when you are confident.
6] Control over emotions and thoughts
Learning how to control your thoughts is the best way to keep happy and positive and should be taught as a way of life. When you can control your thoughts you can see clearly and keep positive. This affects your emotions and when you are in control of your thoughts you are in control of your emotions. This leads to remaining calm.
“ People look for retreats for themselves, in the country, by the coast, or in the hills . . . There is nowhere that a person can find a more peaceful and trouble-free retreat than in his own mind. . . . So constantly give yourself this retreat, and renew yourself. ” – MARCUS AURELIUS
Confident people and confident within themselves and know their strengths. They know what they are capable of and what they are not capable of. They can remain calm knowing this even when someone tells them what they can and can’t do they remain calm. To learn how to master remaining calm is one of the best things one can do in life. In calmness can you see clearly and to remain calm requires great strength.
4] Treat themselves with respect
A sign of confidence is when someone treats themselves with respect and when they can do this then they can treat everyone else with respect. They make sure they know what their limit is and what works for them and they do it. They won’t do anything that would affect their happiness, they will eat well, smell good and make sure their hygiene is on point. They will buy the best things for themselves, eat the best things and dress in the best clothes. They will try to have little to no bad habits. They will look after their body and exercise going to the gym and making gains.
3] Eye Contact
Holding eye contact definitely shows someones confidence. It shows you are strong within yourself and you know what you are capable of.Numerous studies have shown that people who make eye contact with others are perceived as being:
- More dominant and powerful
- More warm and personable
- More attractive and likeable
- More qualified, skilled, competent, and valuable
- More trustworthy, honest, and sincere
- More confident and emotionally stable
2] Help Everyone
Confident people help others because not only are they confident they are probably happy inside and want to spread that happiness to everyone else. With that happiness they are confident in helping others and will go out of their way to help people with all kinds of issues they may be dealing with.
1] Dress Well
Dressing well not only makes you look good but really shows how confident you are. Have you noticed that someone who may be depressed will not take care with their hygiene, their smell and their appearance so they will wear anything even if they look shabby. Confident people are happy and wear what they want to wear and make sure they look good. This makes them more attractive and more approachable. Who will approach some one who smells and looks bad?